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Childhood Moments

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Jul 292012

I had a flashback childhood moment last night. Elle crawled into bed with me (Hubby was away, so she knew her chances were good on staying) and I heard a sigh. A lovely sigh.

That sigh took me back to being a kid. When crawling into your parent’s bed was triumphant victory and the safest place in the world. I then had other flashback moments.

Pretending to be asleep in the car and having your dad carry you into the house.

Dad bringing home root beer and ice cream to make floats.

Laying over the register on a cold morning with a blanket over you to make a tent.

Talking into a fan to hear your voice change.

Hanging upside down off the couch and reading a book while the blood rushing to your head.

I wonder what my kids will remember? What are some of your favorite childhood moments?

Shhhh, Don’t Tell The Kids

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May 102012

I’ll be very candid right now. Candid, not ungrateful, so please don’t think I am ungrateful.

I don’t like breakfast in bed. I hate eating in bed, even late night snacks, so breakfast foods are just impossible for me to enjoy. I don’t want crumbs on my pillow or syrup on my sheets. I just don’t like anything about it.

Except for the look on the kids’ faces when they bring it up. I do adore those faces. They are so happy and so proud, giggling and arguing bursting into the room to awaken me.

Bless them. If I am treated to this custom once again on Sunday, I’ll be sure to ahh it up and let them know how awesome they are. Then I’ll eat my carrots with a side of ketchup (okay, I’ll quietly skip the ketchup) and try not to mess up the bed too much. This may be my last year of my surprise, you never know, I may miss it someday. I probably will miss it someday, but I cannot help but hope they choose an everything bagel over cereal this year!

Twelve Year Old Mood Swings And Rules To Live By

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Feb 062012

If you have yet to live with a twelve-year old, please read the following post carefully. It could save your life or at the very least an unpleasant outburst of emotions, from you and the child you used to be able to tease.

Rule #1 Never look them directly in the eye when you know they are grumpy/psychotic. The glare from them can freeze you on contact.

Rule #2 When you are aware of said grumpiness, say as little as possible. Don’t try to fix it or make a suggestion. When needed to inform them of something important, make it very informal and indirect (while not looking at them) for example: “Lunch box is on the table.” Is much better than “Sweetie, I put your lunch box on the table by your backpack. Please don’t forget it.” That last statement may just make them leave their lunch box on purpose.

Rule #3 When later that day your twelve-year-old is happy, humming and the sweet child you remember DO NOT ASK THEM WHAT WAS WRONG EARLIER! They will revert back to grumpy. Just be happy that they are happy and get some hugs in while you can!

Rule #4 The rules change day by day and sometimes hour by hour. Do your best and remember that someday they will enjoy your company, help and support. At least I have been told this. I hope they just weren’t saying it to give me hope…..

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Kids Book Review: You Read To Me, I’ll Read To You

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Sep 142011

Yesterday on our weekly trip to the library I found a fun new book that I thought Elle and I would enjoy. It turns out that Enu is in love with it and *bonus* it is a great bonding tool. The book is called You Read to Me, I’ll Read to You: Very short stories to read together by Mary Ann Hoberman and illistrated by Michael Emberly.

Elle is an emergent reader, reading on her own a bit, but still needing help. Reading with her can be fun or can be tedious depending on her level of stubborness at the time! What is so great about this book is that we are reading short lines together, which keeps her (and me) from getting bored. There are mostly rhymes which is great for new readers and writers and the book gets silly which means fun! Fun while reading is so important when they are young. We can’t make it a chore.

As I mentioned in a previous post, one of the reasons for homeschooling Enu was to give her some one on one time that she missed when she was little. This book offers a fun and easy way to spend that precious time with her. She missed the fairy tales and rhyming books. She missed the silly reading stories. She adores this book. We have reserved the other titles in the series: Very Short Fairy Tales and Very Short Mother Goose Tales and I am hoping to get them in time for vacation.

I get happy when I find something with multi-uses and this book fits the bill. I encourage all parents of emergent readers or parents of older-adopted children to check this book out at your library and give it a try.

Have you read this book with your kids? Is reading time bonding time for you all as well?

(Disclosure: I recieved no compenstation for reviewing this book, nor was I asked to review it. I borrowed my copy from the library. Amazon links are not affiliate links and I will not get any money from them.)

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Sixteen Years Ago

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Jul 292011

I waited sixteen years to drive a car. It seemed like the longest wait ever. Now I have been married for sixteen years and it seems to have sped by amazingly fast! Happy Anniversary Hubby Dear.

Look at those young uns!

Sixteen years and counting!

Give Blood

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Jul 122011

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During my senior year of school I donated blood for the first time. I was so excited to do something so important. About an hour later, I apparently turned green in Biology class and remember my teacher holding my hand while they waited for the wheelchair. He was telling everyone that reactions like this to blood donations are all in your head. That I really wasn’t ill. I can tell you that I fibbed a bit on the weight so I probably shouldn’t have given at all that day. You have to be 110 pounds to donate and I was about 100 at that time (oh the days). Sure I lied, but I wanted to give. To help. To save a life. Corney maybe, but true.

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The other day I got an email asking to get some of my Girl Scouts to help volunteer at a local blood drive. They needed the girls to walk around the Farmer’s Market and get people to go to the Bloodmobile parked on the street.

I used to work for the American Red Cross over a decade ago (yikes!). I took blood from volunteers. During my time I was so impressed with people of all walks of life donating blood, in essence giving life. While walking around the market last week talking to people, it amazed me of the responses from people.

“It hurts to bad.”

“I need my blood.”

“No one wants my blood.”

Worse were some of the looks people gave us without bothering to even use words.

The girls walked a lot and moved out of their comfort zone, learning how to make a “pitch” and asking people to donate. It is not easy. We came up with a few jingles that we didn’t use, but got a good laugh over. One was “Lose some weight, Donate today.” Another was ” Save Bella, Donate today.” Good times!

I thought I would share a few facts to help encourage others to donate blood:

*Every blood donation has the potential to help (possibly save the life) of three different people.

*It will take about an hour of your time.

*All needles used are new, clean, safe.(Yes, some people are still afraid of getting AIDS from giving blood)

* It really isn’t painful. Just a stab at first…come on a little poke. It’s more painful to have a splinter dug out!

Check out if you are eligible to give. Here is a great page to learn about blood, it even has games!

I encourage you all to think about donating blood in the next few months. Not all of us are able to due to health conditions and such, but if you can, please give it a try.

Have you ever donated blood? What were your thoughts about the process and how did you feel afterwards? I am scheduled to donate at BlogHer11 in a couple of weeks, after the 5K run thankfully!

Don’t forget to enter my contest!

(I am not affilated with the American Red Cross, nor was I asked to blog about this. I just like the idea of helping others!)

An Easy Way To Give

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Jun 242011

I read just yesterday in the Columbus Dispatch that after two years charitable donations have gone up since the recession hit. This is good news for non-profits and good new for everyone really. Giving is a simple way of saying thanks for the life that we have and the blessings we have shared.

I like to give. I like to give time and money, resources that are not always easy to come by but are important to make the world go round. As I have gotten older I have become more judicious with my giving. I investigate the place my money is going to and such, but I still give. I wish I could give more money and time to places that need it and causes that touch my heart.

The other day I read a blog from a girl dying from Leukemia. She started a bucket-list blog and is asking people all over the world to get on the registry to donate bone marrow. I swabbed my bone marrow this morning and popped it in the mail. The organization (DKMS) asked for a t$65 donation to cover the cost of processing, but they would take a donation of any amount or none at all. I didn’t have an extra $65 bucks this week, but I did have my GiveBack account.

GiveBack.org is a site I signed up on last year. It is a site you can shop through and get a percentage of your purchase back in to your GiveBack account. Then you can donate the money to any registered charity. Simply. Easy. Fun even. I have shopped on Shopathome.com and through Upromise before to get the rebate back, but I really like the twist with GiveBack.org. It helps me give, easily, even anonymously if I wish and the feeling I get with giving back is much bigger and longer lasting than a $20 check I can get every few months.

The account adds up quickly, as I like to shop online. Check it out! Have fun and find your charities you like to donate to. Right now GiveBack.org is celebrating giving with 100 days of giving. Someone can win big money to give away to a charity close to their heart!

(Disclosure: Thanks to the One2One network for reminding me about the 100 days of giving with GiveBack.org!)

Twenty-Five Days of Thankfulness #9

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Nov 252010

#9 Hubby

Hubby and I

I cannot express my love and thanks for Hubby in a blog post. The words are impossible to conjure up in my head.

Three years of dating. Fifteen years of marriage. Four kids. Peru. Four states. Thirteen-ish moves. All together. My partner in life at all times whether they are stress-full, boring, exciting or magical.

Hubby is handsome, intelligent, thoughtful, patient, kind, funny and loyal. He is a great father who loves his girls immensely.

He is also a bad dancer, likes talk radio over music (I think a little goes a long way) and doesn’t get the whole Twitter thing. No one is perfect ;)

I Love Playing Santa

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Dec 082009

Last month was National Adoption Awareness Month as I have mentioned before. I used all my November AVON profits to buy Christmas gifts for a local foster child. I chose a ten year old girl since I have some experience with them! Thanks to everyone who bought products from me! I was able to purchase 2 outfits, 1 backpack, 1 purse, a Hannah Montana pillow and blanket (she requested these as I am not a fan!), hair things, lotions, lip glosses and some fun tween toys. Of course the mom in me also got underwear, socks, shampoos and school supplies.

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Here are some pictures of the gifts. I have so much fun playing Santa…thanks!

Photo Credit Mandy W. 2009

Fourteen Years Of Bliss….

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Jul 292009

Today, July 29th, 2009 is our 14th anniversary:) Amazing, how time goes by so fast. Very cliche I know, but the truth! Traditionally a gift of Ivory should be given as a gift. The modern gift is Gold. Apparently now it is fashionable to have anniversary trips as well. What is humorous is that the trip Hubby and I should take this year is to Africa. Can you believe it? We went a year to early. What a faux paus. I hope no one reports me to Miss Manners!

We just got a camper…I doubt it is made of ivory or gold, but not a bad anniversary gift!

I thought I’d show you all some pictures of us through the years.